Last night I decided to create on online profile for dating. This is something I have been debating for the past few weeks. I've tried online dating in the past and to be honest, I have had very bad luck. But it's August 1st and I figured....what the heck....I'll give this another whirl. To make it more interesting I figured I would blog about it. I have had more horror stories than romantic stories. Some of my friends have a hard time believing the stories I have shared with them.
My thoughts regarding online dating: I try and think of it as an internet bar and some random guy is walking up to me and wants to buy me a drink or hit on me. It just happens to be in cyberspace. In the past I have ignored the men I am not interested in who wink at me or who email me. This time I will do my best to give them some kind of reply and then come here and blog about it. I never seem to win when it comes to telling someone I am not interested. If someone does not reply to my wink or email I simply walk away and move on. More often than not, the men have tried to change my mind or talk me into giving them a shot. This is where my favorite saying comes from: The Desperation is so Unattractive.
My thoughts on dating: I have a couple of friends who try and get me to go out w/them to downtown or various bars. I am pretty sure I am not going to meet anyone in a bar. And I am not comfortable in those situations or perhaps not with those certain people so I choose not to go. They are going out to pick up. They can tell me all they want that it's not a priority but I know better. On the other hand I do want to get out more but I want it to be on my terms or on terms I am more comfortable with.
My thoughts on men vs women regarding dating and finding a partner: I think men have much more of a desire to be in a relationship. I find that men these days want to take you out a couple of times and then immediately call you their girlfriend. The men I have met in the past and on these websites seem desperate to find a girlfriend or maybe they just want a babysitter for all of the kids they have produced. I am not the gal for you then. Say what you want but I have way too many stories to prove that I am correct. This is the main reason I am blogging.
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